Hello! Hello, I'm José, a licensed massage therapist and tantra coach. Seven years ago, in pursuit of self-improvement, I left my work in the oil industry and fell in love with the wellness, sexuality, and spirituality worlds. Since then, I've completed numerous massage and tantra courses at institutions including Ireland's Hollistic College Dublin and Thailand's International Thai Massage School (among many others), as well as at the renowned True Tantra.

For many years of my life, I fought, denied, and repressed my sexuality, which led me to become emotionally distant from myself and to pursue relationships with men that were ultimately unsatisfying and limited. In addition to being emotionally unavailable, I had a toxically restricted definition of sexuality and was out of touch with my body and sexual energy.

Making peace with my sexuality was a difficult and complex process since I worried about embarrassing or disrespecting my family. After years of counseling, I finally had the confidence to accept and embrace my own identity. Tantra therapy supported me in growing as a sexual being, broadening my understanding of sexuality, connecting with my sexual energy, overcoming premature ejaculation, managing anxiety, developing self-acceptance and self-love, and allowing deeper connection with another man.

Unfortunately, gay men have a hard time maintaining strong, genuine intimate relationships, so we tend to limit ourselves to the physical level, engaging in brief encounters. External factors like society attitudes and cultural expectations contribute to the difficulty some homosexual men have with intimacy.

All of these problems have implications on how men understand and express their sexuality and interact with other men, leading to feelings of guilt, inadequacy, and sin as well as tension, worry, low self-esteem, and premature ejaculation, among other things. As a result, one's sexual life becomes empty and pointless.

As a professional, I support gay men to develop more body awareness, become sexualy self-confident by breaking old patterns and healing from trauma, and expanding their concept of sexuallity. I also use tantra to assist gay guys in overcoming their fears of intimacy and having satisfying sexual encounters. By focusing on these concerns, my work with gay men enables them to live their truest lives and form deeper, more meaningful connections with others.

I invite you to embark on a journey of self acceptance, healing, meaninful connections and deeper intimacy. How ready do you feel?